Choosing the Right Partner: A Life-Changing Decision
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In Think & Grow Rich, Napoleon Hill pointed out that one of the most common causes of failure is choosing the wrong partner in marriage. Selecting a life partner is one of the most important decisions you’ll make, and it’s essential to go beyond superficial attractions, like appearance or material wealth.
The 28 questions below are designed to help you evaluate your relationship with your partner. Reflecting on your answers can provide insight into whether this relationship has the foundation to be truly fulfilling.
Am I willing to dedicate quality time solely to my partner?
Are they willing to devote their time to me?
Do we share similar passions and interests?
Do I feel valued and appreciated by my partner?
Does my partner show interest in my goals and plans?
Are we continuing to grow closer over time?
Does my partner learn from their mistakes?
Does my partner surround themselves with positive influences?
Do they listen to my perspective before jumping to conclusions?
Have they experienced a history of troubled relationships?
Do my partner’s parents or family members see me in a positive light?
How do they handle minor challenges—do they overreact?
Are they employed or actively working toward a career?
Are they self-motivated?
Do they struggle with feelings of inferiority?
Do I see myself having children with this person?
Would I be content spending my life with them, even if they never changed?
Have I introduced them to my family and close friends?
Are they respectful to my family and loved ones?
Do they show gratitude when given a gift?
Do they respect my past?
Is open communication easy between us?
Do we make major decisions together?
Can I trust them with my financial information?
Do we feel safe sharing our secrets with each other?
Can we be vulnerable about our painful experiences?
Can I trust them around my friends when I’m not present?
Do I trust them, even when we’re apart?
Make it a habit to ask yourself these questions periodically. The answers can be a powerful guide to help you determine whether your relationship has the lasting qualities of a strong partnership.
~ Written By @AskForCorey
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